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Ale...<p class=\"more-link-wrap\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/rozdielne-ciele\/\" class=\"more-link\">Pre\u010d\u00edta\u0165<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &ldquo;Rozdielne ciele&rdquo;<\/span> &raquo;<\/a><\/p>","datePublished":"2024-01-11","dateModified":"2024-03-11","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/56990d361a15c60249588fcd5c65556d1c39f993ac5e20b5abce42fd817b46e8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/56990d361a15c60249588fcd5c65556d1c39f993ac5e20b5abce42fd817b46e8?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"rkair.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-alexander-krivitskiy-1682411_10_10_10_10_10_1.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/pexels-alexander-krivitskiy-1682411_10_10_10_10_10_1.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/rozdielne-ciele\/","about":["Spolo\u010dnos\u0165"],"wordCount":426,"articleBody":"V \u010dase mojej depresie som narazila na chlapca, ktor\u00fd o m\u0148a prejavil z\u00e1ujem ale ja sa mu vyh\u00fdbala (aby som neprepadla a ujasnila si veci so sebou), tie\u017e b\u00fdva k\u00fasok odo m\u0148a. Sme spolu z m\u00f4jho poh\u013eadu 8 mesiacov. Teraz som u\u017e v pohode, ale nakoniec sme nadviazali vz\u0165ah. V posteli je fakt bo\u017e\u00ed. Ale mam z toho divn\u00fd pocit. Pr\u00edde mi \u017ee nie som nikdy dos\u0165 a m\u00e1 potrebu mi prekr\u00faca\u0165 n\u00e1zory na jeho a d\u00e1va\u0165 mi najavo ak\u00e1 by som mala by\u0165 a \u010do viac robi\u0165, ja k nemu v\u00fdhrady nemam a akceptujem ho ak\u00fd je, ke\u010f bude chcie\u0165 zmenu podpor\u00edm ho. Chcem sa vylep\u0161ova\u0165, ale nie tak, \u017ee mi bude rozk\u00e1zan\u00e9. Som ve\u013emi tvrdohlav\u00e1 a na chu\u0165 si prich\u00e1dzam sama.Argument s\u00edce odmietnem, ale uva\u017eujem nad nimi. Je medzi nami rozdiel 10 rokov. Ke\u010f je probl\u00e9m rie\u0161ime ho. Obaja pokec\u00e1me, vychladneme a odp\u00fa\u0161\u0165ame si. Komunikujeme ve\u013emi spolu. Bohu\u017eia\u013e si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee som to zle nastavila u\u017e zo za\u010diatku. Obaja m\u00e1me rozdielne ciele a kon\u00ed\u010dky on by chcel za ani nie 5 rokov rodinu. Pr\u00eddem si na to mlad\u00e1, rodi\u010dia mi nezanechali ni\u010d a tak mus\u00edm maka\u0165. Rodinu by som chcela tak za 8-9 rokov, do kedy by som si mohla stabilizova\u0165 svoje \u00fazemie a financie. Obaja b\u00fdvame u svojich rodi\u010dov. M\u00e1lo sa pod\u013ea neho vid\u00edme, chce so mnou viac cestova\u0165 a pos\u00fava\u0165 vz\u0165ah.Spomenul, \u017ee by chcel do bud\u00facnosti ma\u0165 aj ak\u00fdsi polyamory (na\u010do ja odmietam), \u017ee sa takto m\u00f4\u017eem vyhn\u00fa\u0165 svadbe s n\u00edm a necha\u0165 si svoje priezvisko, \u010do chcem (profesion\u00e1lne \u00fa\u010dely) a tie\u017e nema\u0165 deti (len\u017ee nejde o to, \u017ee by som ich vervemoci nechcela, jednoducho nie hne\u010f). O to viac ma t\u00e1 predstava znepokojuje. \u010eal\u0161\u00ed fakt je to, \u017ee nechcem zosta\u0165 v \u010cR a \u010dasom sa presun\u00fa\u0165 na typ lifestylu kedy by som mohla pracova\u0165 na dia\u013eku a jazdi\u0165 kam chcem. M\u00e1m aj ma\u010dku na ktor\u00fa m\u00e1 alergiu, m\u00e1 alergiu aj na kvety \u2013 dve veci ktor\u00e9 m\u00e1m rada a musela by som sa vzda\u0165 povieme na dobr\u00fdch 20-30 rokov ur\u010dite, pokia\u013e nebudem niekde sama. Neviem kadia\u013e kam. Chlapec je fajn, ale spolu\u017eitie s n\u00edm by pre m\u0148a znamenalo ve\u013ea zmien a aj strata z\u00e1\u017eitkov\/vec\u00ed, \u010di ich m\u00e1m za\u017eit\u00e9 alebo pl\u00e1nujem.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Rozdielne ciele","item":"https:\/\/www.rkair.sk\/rozdielne-ciele\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]